Annie Fox for Teens... Hey, Terra!

Hi there… How’s it going? Probably not all that great or you wouldn’t be here looking for help. No worries. Teens have been emailing me since 1997 because I give good advice. If you’ve got a problem with friends, so-called friends, a bf/gf, a parent, or anything else… email me. I can help you sort out your feelings. No matter what’s going on, you always have choices. And choices matter because sometimes the stuff we do to “fix” a problem only makes things worse. You don’t want to go there. Instead, let me help you figure out your next best move

In friendship,
Terra (aka Annie Fox)

From Terra’s Inbox

“I want him to be committed to me.”

 

“My boyfriend hit me across the face.”

Hey Terra,

I have been best friends with this guy for three years. We have a lot of sexual tension in our relationship. We both like each other Romantically, but he isn't looking for a committed relationship. But every time we are together we end up fooling around or having sex. I'm on the pill and he uses a condom most of the time. I love him and I like having sex with him, but if I were to get pregnant I could not care for a child and I know we couldn't care for a child. How do you think I can get him to want to be committed to me?

Wanting More

 

Hey Terra,

I have a serious problem. I have a boyfriend who is 18 and I've been with him for more than a year. But the thing is he has been insulting me lately and wanting to touch me and I don't like that. I tell him to stop but he doesn't so he keeps saying that I'm a whore and a slut because I won't let him touch me. And he says I'm probably getting touched by other guys in my school and that isn't true.

Today he was screaming at me in the car and when we got home he hit me across the face. I told my mom and my brother but they told me to not worry. I'm already tired of the things he's doing and...

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