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I’m a parenting expert and family coach. Our 21st century tweens and teens are so savvy about pop culture, technology and social media, they may believe they’ve got the emotional and interpersonal part of life figured out too. They don’t. Middle and high school kids need their parents to teach them how to be good people who do the right thing, online and off. Because home is where kids learn the most about love, respect, empathy and resilience, you need 21st century parenting advice you can count on.

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Letters from Parents & Teens

Communication Problems:
“I'm worried that my husband is undermining my daughter's self-esteem.”

 

Divorce:
“What are some dating rules for divorced parents?”

Dear Annie,

My 14 year old daughter is very mature and responsible, but I don't think my husband sees that. I think he is very proud of her and sees her capability on the soccer field for example, but at home, he is constantly cautioning her to "be careful", or "don't forget this", or "I hope you didn't say...

 

Hey Terra,

I am a divorced mom of a 7th grade girl and an 8th grade boy. I have been divorced for 10 years and have not dated much. Can you help me with some of the questions I am running into like:

  • Do I tell them I am dating?
  • When do I tell them??
  • How much do I tell them about the man I am dating??
  • When is...

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Annie’s Blog:
I want a boyfriend but I'm not good at flirting!

March 24, 2019

I wish I had a boyfriend...

I just got an email from a girl who's never had a boyfriend and she really wants one. We've all been there, right? Everyone deserves to be loved. Being loved by someone you love is an amazing feeling that nurtures your spirit and opens your heart and mind to the beauty of life. If you aren't in a relationship and you want to be, you may feel frustrated and/or impatient. But you know what they say? You can't hurry love. You can, however, prepare yourself to be a good partner by learning about yourself, what you want, and what you need.

Teen: I'm a 16 year old girl who never had a boyfriend before but I really want one. The thing is, I'm kind of shy so I'm not that good at flirting!

Annie: It might be helpful for you to think about what kind of boyfriend you™re looking for. How about if you fill in the blank in this sentence?

I want a boyfriend who is __________________________________________.

Keep brainstorming until you run out of things that are true for you.

Teen: I want a boyfriend who is: loyal, friendly, kind, respects boundaries, a good listener, and willing to try new things.

Annie: That™s a very thoughtful list of qualities. Good work. So tell me, do you already know someone with any or some of those qualities? More »


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