Annie (AKA Hey Terra!) has been around long enough to have experienced a lot of what Life can dish out. But, it hasn’t been so long that she's forgotten what it's like to be your age. Check out some of the thousands of email questions teens from around the world have sent to Terra. You may learn something useful from her answers:
Sex and Sexuality:
“I feel kind of stupid.”
Hey Terra,
My boyfriend asked me to either give him a hand job or head. And I don't know how to do either. I feel kind of stupid because I don't know how or what it is. Can you tell me what it is and what I'd have to do?Thanks so much.
IDK
Dear IDK,
He's talking about hand to genital contact and mouth to genital contact. But here's the thing, if you aren't comfortable enough with your boyfriend to honestly tell him that you don't know what he's talking about, how will you be comfortable enough to touch him, etc.?
In friendship,
Terra
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