Annie Fox for Teens... Hey, Terra!

Hi there… How’s it going? Probably not all that great or you wouldn’t be here looking for help. No worries. Teens have been emailing me since 1997 because I give good advice. If you’ve got a problem with friends, so-called friends, a bf/gf, a parent, or anything else… email me. I can help you sort out your feelings. No matter what’s going on, you always have choices. And choices matter because sometimes the stuff we do to “fix” a problem only makes things worse. You don’t want to go there. Instead, let me help you figure out your next best move

In friendship,
Terra (aka Annie Fox)

From Terra’s Inbox

“I'm afraid people will make fun of me.”


“I don't know why they hate me.”

Hey Terra,

I have a problem. Oh this is embarrassing. I want friends. I mean I have some, but I want more but the thing is I'm scared. You ask why? Well I'm afraid that they will make fun of me cuz I have a learning disability. I know I shouldn't think like that but I'm always so shy when I go to like a dance or something like that. What should I do? I need some help.

LD Kid


Hey Terra,

There's this girl and she hates me. She tries to make me miserable and it works! She calls me fat and ugly and everything and I don't know how to deal with it. She has everyone hating me. Nobody will have anything to do with me. They came to my house and waited until I got home and my mom threatened them. Now they are being so mean I don't know how to do anything anymore I'm so upset and confused. I don't no why they hate me. All I do is cry and I don't know how to make it stop. I'm so hurt and so confused I don't no how to explain it. It's the worst feeling. Loneliness all the time. No...

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From today's IN BOX: Getting dumped by a BFF hurts so bad!

October 28, 2015

Forever may be shorter than you think Forever may be shorter than you think

The emails from girls who have been "dumped" by a BFF and "replaced" by their ex-BFF's new BFF continue to pile up. I get several every day. And while it's normal to feel upset when the person you've been closest to no longer gives a fig for your friendship and it's helpful to reach out to someone you can trust, you've got to ask yourself: what can I do besides feeling like crap?

If you're a teen, this one's is for you. I'm going to tell you how to use your power in ways that will make you feel good about yourself... not like the "thrown out pickle on a hamburger" (as one 13 year old so eloquently put it.)

If you're the parent of a teen, this one's for you too because even when your girl feels "helpless" there are ways you can help her through this rejection.

Hey Terra – My BFF and I have been really close for 3 years. Last year I became close with another friend. I treated them both like my best friends and I had no idea my first BFF was kinda jealous of the other, she never told me. I felt her drifting away. Then she started getting close to a newcomer and calling her her best friend! I felt replaced. I am getting jealous and I really wish I can have my best friend back. It hurts everytime I see their pictures together. They are always hugging each other and holding hands, which I dislike because she never did that with me. It really hurts at the moment because I can feel my friend ignoring me. More »

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